Recently, I started reading a new genre of books- Self help and motivation.One common thing that I found between all these books were the fact that they insisted you on believing in you before anything else. This was mentioned so many times across every book that I started to question it. Can belief really move mountains? Or we just repeat it because it is quoted?
One thing I know for sure that if my life depended on moving a mountain, I would certainly have to believe that I could do it before I try. The belief lies not in the fact that the mountain will move somehow, but in the fact that my mind will surely find a way around the problem.You cannot wish away the mountain but you can believe in yourself to face it. If you are not convinced that you can do a job, how do you expect it to be done? Our mind is a magical thing. Let it work for you rather than against you. We all deal with failures, uncertainty and indecisiveness. Some of us believe that we can win through this and so we do. Others fail at the first step itself. You don’t need to know the full path to have strong sense of belief. When you drive a car on a foggy road, you don’t see the full road yet you keep driving. You only need to see the path that is illuminated by the headlights.Once you reach its end, you find more of the path unraveled and you continue onward. The same is with the mind. Self belief gives you a certain clarity of the road on which you will be treading.
Believing in yourself makes you stronger to greet the challenges that lie ahead, for if you are not enthusiastic you have already failed even before trying. I was recently a part of a team that trekked the Himalayas. The weather on summit day was pretty rough.The air was thin,the climb substantially steep and the temperature excruciatingly cold. Being a beginner I was ready to quit. Then, I saw the team gearing up. All talking excitedly about the view they would relish after reaching the top. They weren’t showing signs of pain or disbelief. It was supposed to be cold for them too but they weren’t wavering. I realized that each of them believed more in themselves rather than the factors beyond their control. This made me realize, we can either let our mind work for us or let it work against us.
I don’t know what it takes to be a billionaire or a entrepreneur but one thing I know for sure is that if i was ever to make it to that one day, I have to convince myself that I can do it. You don’t doubt whether you can walk or talk or sleep, Why let that doubt creep in when it comes to your dreams? Stop selling yourself short. You only become as good as you convince yourself to be.
Every person working a 9 to 5 or otherwise,has at some point in life thought about owning a business. It is not worth working long hours every week just to see your boss get all the credit. Being your own boss is a dream everybody has. However, even the most thought out business models are troubled when encountered with the question of financing. Unless you have deep pockets, the start of business is a tough situation. And the point is,you start a business to build some financial strength but need money to start a business.Its a loop and you need to figure a way to enter it successfully. You need to have money to make more money.
Soon to be starting my first business, I discovered some ways, from our daily lives,that will help you in saving up for the business that you are aiming to build. Apparently all of them are present right before us, staring at our faces but we need to recognize them.
Savings- Definitely,this has got to be the most cliched one . Whether you are a student or a person working a job,you need to set aside some part of your pocket money/income for your business. Saving an extra 10% may not result in large sums of money but will definitely add up in the future.
Coffee- This is one of the most overlooked expense ever. Period. That morning trip through the Starbucks may cost you more than you think. If you are and avid drinker, that everyday cup of 8$ sums up to a staggering amount of 240$. I’m not saying, go all out and stop it. Even by reducing its frequency to alternative days you save about a hundred bucks. A lot for your startup.
Transport- If you own a car,try carpooling. If that’s not possible resolve to use public transport almost twice a week. We all know how expensive taxis can be. Public transport often provides the users with schemes and discounts for monthly passes. Keep an eye out for them. You could very well ride your convertible but until the point that your business is earning you profits,you need every cent to invest.
Partner- No business is ever started solo. You need different people with varied expertise to help set up your business. Find a trustworthy business partner. By having a partner you ensure that the costs to be encountered will be split by you. Instead of having to save for your business alone, you have someone else too.
Cable- I still fail to understand why people pay for both cable and Internet at the same time. Its high time to realize that you could stream live tv on your phone. Checkout services like that available in your country. By signing off the cable you can add a couple of extra bucks to your savings.
Food- This is essential.There can be no cuts here( Yes,I’d spend as much as required on food). However avoid going to unnecessary gourmet restaurants. You do not get enough value in return of what you pay. It is of course very romantic to take your girlfriend for a meal in five star restaurant but if you are really serious about setting up that business you will have to postpone that for a while.
No cash no payment- Avoid using your card for every little payment. Make a rule when shopping that if you don’t have enough cash then you’re not buying it. Having a card makes us swipe it anytime we wish. We forget that we have to pay for all of that later and that really hurts your budget.
Track your expenses- Always track your expenses. See where most of your money is spent.Is that really necessary? Asking a few right questions to yourself will make a difference.
All these methods require extra effort on your part. I’m not saying that this will magically give you loads of money but over a longer period you will see the difference. You could prefer temporary comfort by spending on useless things but that will only set you back. I’m not implying that you avoid dentist’s appointments or cancel your gym subscription to save money. Spend where required,avoid where possible. Ask yourself what is that you desire more, temporary comforts or your business running at full potential and you will find other ways to help your cause too.